Present happenings may make you feel like the possibility of getting your ex is rather impossible.
But I will like you to know that; it is never over until it is over, keep also in mind that it can't be over until you have made your last effort.
If you have made several efforts, you should understand that the last effort you made should never be considered as the last effort, but rather as the one before the last.
- You need to be tough: Remember that when the going gets tough, it is only the tough that can ever get going.
This is exactly why you will need to maintain some level of toughness.
This will go a long way in ensuring that you are able to see this noble task of getting your ex to a conclusive end.
- 'No Contact' will do wonders: You can bet with me that one of the greatest tools you can ever possess in your kitty is 'silence'.
You will need to try hard to keep away from your ex for now.
It will not do your self pride and ego any good if you try to contact your ex.
Any effort to contact them will be seen as a sign of weakness by your ex and you will end up painting yourself up as a weakling who can't live life without them.
One thing you will need to understand is that during this period of silence on your part, you will be setting the mind of your ex on a rather troubled path.
Your ex will naturally get over what happened and will want to come back for you.
- Get busy: You will need to get yourself into something meaningful and fulfilling.
Don't wait for your ex to come around before you make any further move.
Start doing things that will give you your life back.
Make yourself sociable and live life as if all that matters to you is living.
Stop hiding yourself indoor engrossed in a cloak of sadness.
You can be sure that your ex will get to notice in no time and will want to come back for you.