In trying to get our ex back, we end up doing the exact opposite of what we should really be doing.
We actually do things that will repel our ex away, ironically! Of course it's not what you want to hear now - that everything you have been doing is wrong, but just look at the results, do you have your ex back yet? Exactly, which is why you must see what exactly is keeping you from getting the love of your life back.
Here is what you must avoid if you want your ex back...
Pleading and begging- "please, please, please I'll do anything, anything you want!" "I beg you, don't do this!" etc...
You get the picture! However you beg, if different from this, begging is begging.
It lowers yourself to the point where your ex will think that you have absolutely no self respect.
Your ex will think you are just plain pathetic and will refuse.
Getting mad at your ex- Well,well...
when people do not do what we want them to, we suddenly want to force them to! How do we try and enforce this? We get mad.
We get angry.
Getting this upset with your ex, will only prove how right your ex was to break up with you, because you are showing a very nasty side.
Trash talking your ex- Whether to your friends, their friends or to some family members, whoever it is will relay this message to your ex somehow.
Whatever leaves your mouth never has the guarantee that it will not be spread; so always avoid talking about your ex to anyone until the problem is solved.
Otherwise you will find things getting out of hand, and will wonder what you did; but it will be rather what you said to others that bothered your ex.