Where does sex fit into a relationship? Do you know what he needs most to fall in love with you? How can you make the bond stronger? Love isn't simply a feeling but a series of actions.
To make love work we must know it's a constant plan of action to keep love alive and well.
Every day partners work to become better friends to grow closer, trust more, love more, and strengthen respect.
Who cares for you and loves you more than your friends? Love is best friends with a greater soul connection.
You need friendship to make love work.
Even friends need space once in a while.
Sometimes you need to spend time with girlfriends and family.
He needs time to watch sports with the guys, visit with his dad or be alone to watch "Cops" all night.
When he wants to spend time with friends and makes plans, respect and understand that.
You both deserve time apart for friends and fun with others in life.
To make love work, it must be strong enough on its own and you both must be strong to be alone as well.
The physical aspect comes into play sooner that it used to but sex should be kept to emotions.
When the friendship is strong, powerful, and obvious, then sex will be better without defining the relationship.
Most relationships are slow the first couple months and feelings aren't well established.
During this time sex complicates and defies when it shouldn't.
Men fall into lust confusing it with love.
His feelings concentrate on sex, how the sex is determines his misguided feelings.
Eventually his emotions do emerge but they weren't associated with love and he realizes he doesn't feel what he thought.
Men need to develop honest emotions and then romance.
They can't handle both because it's too confusing and overloads their capacity.
Allow time and emotional development to make love work.