When women have been accustomed to living a certain life, being married for several years and having children, it can be quite a shock when the relationship ends. That results in being alone, sleeping alone, several unanswered questions and so on. Then come the feelings that make things worse, feeling lonely and depressed. It's quite similar to mourning the death of someone you love. In such a situation, they are faced with several stages before acceptance actually happens. The other four stages include resentment, denial, anger, and depression. Only then is it possible for women dating after divorce.

Quite often, friends and family push them to start dating again. Unfortunately, they aren't ready until all these above stages are experienced. If the feelings for the ex-husband have not subsided, it can cause even more problems. Psychologically and emotionally, they are left with levels of low self-esteem, feeling unwanted with respects to other men.

At the same time, they do want to move on so that they aren't left alone for the rest of their lives. This often puts them in situations where they are easily taken advantage of, especially by other married men looking for fun.

Because of this, they are left to believe that their new love interest will prosper and that the married men will join them once and for all. Of course, for this to occur, it would take a miracle as this is truly uncommon. So, these vulnerable women wait time and again for visits or phone calls that often don't happen.

But because they are so excited and so vulnerable, they tend to turn away from those that love them. They leave their days and nights open in case he may call on them. However, these married men will stay with their own families. On the other hand, the divorced women suffer even more as their own families and friends give up on them. And when there are children in the whole equation, it gets even more complicated. These women have to continuously make arrangements for adults to babysit the kids. They also have to play the role of both parents with more responsibilities. And when relationships do present themselves, there is often resentment on the side of the children.

It's even worse for the kids when the father has a good relationship with them. This is in no way meant to discourage this father/child relationship. In fact, it should be encouraged and both parents should be responsible, loving, and care for their kids, regardless of any ill feelings and differences between them. Your key goal is to ensure your children's well-being by putting them first. Meanwhile, if they are well cared for by their fathers, it will simplify matters for the women, freeing up time so that they can meet other men as well.

However, it's important that you stay focused and take your time. Very often, men become uninterested in women who rush things, making them run to the nearest exit. That's because we are different, women want lifetime partners and quick. On the other hand, men prefer to take it slow.