It is the never-ending joke on marriage: "Once you get married, you can kiss your sex life goodbye!" However, contrary to popular belief and/or experience, when you get married, you should be having more sex, not the other way around.
As a wife and mom of 6, I know it can be hard to connect with each other when you have so many responsibilities and concerns that can catch you up in a daily whirlwind.
But it is imperative that you put forth a conscious effort to make your relationship with yourself and the relationship with your spouse of top priority.
Here are 5 quick tips to promote more sex in your marriage: 1.
LOVE YOURSELF: If you are not loving yourself, you are making it harder for your spouse to love you.
Believe in yourself and your spouse will be drawn to you- spiritually, emotionally and sexually.
2.
EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY: You are a mature sexual being.
Enjoy the privilege of indulging and satisfying your sexual hunger with your true love.
3.
COMMUNICATE: Ease up on the complaining.
Tell and show your spouse how much you desire and need them for who they are, not for what you need them to do for you.
4.
ENJOY EACH OTHER: Don't just tolerate each others existence.
Take time to simply enjoy each others company again.
Go out on dates and leave conversation about work, kids and bills out.
It's all about you and your love! 5.
HAVE QUICKIES OFTEN: Sex does not always have to be a long romantic saga.
As my friend and her husband says, " Sometimes you just gotta bang it out!" Quickies are awesome and a little naughty.
They add variety and spice to life.