While you may be desperate to find "how to make her fall in love with me again", I would like to show you a better way that does not show her your desperation.
Your woman, if like most others, would rather a confident man she can look up to.
No one can really "make" another fall in love with him or her.
God does not even do that! Love has to come from the other direction or it is not love.
Could it be that your marriage or relationship has fallen into a rut do to years of familiarity with each other and perhaps an unhealthy dose of taking each other for granted? What we want to do is reignite the love that we know your girl is capable of for you because she showed it to you before, maybe a long time ago.
If you fell in love with her it was probably a result of seeing this person look you in the eye with respect and admiration, something that has faded over time.
I bet what you really want is for your woman to love you sincerely with a burning desire to be with you and be a part of your life.
You can overcome the problems that have accumulated in your relationship and "make" her fall in love with you again if she can rediscover the man she fell in love with.
To start the process I would suggest you try to talk to her about your feelings and the distance that has developed between you.
This could be uncomfortable and she may even respond angrily and give you the cliche response that "nothing is wrong".
Which, of course, means there is so much wrong I will not even bother to start describing the problem.
While often this can precipitate a fight, you can avoid that by taking a little more time to approach the subject and try to rebuild her trust in you that you are sincerely interested in listening to her.
It is common for men to want any discussion about problems to be quick, to the point, and hurry to find a solution.
Women just do not see things that way.
If she begins talking to you and your initial reaction is to: 1.
) Check your watch 2.
) Roll your eyes 3.
) or make a "humph" sound under your breath Then you have some work to do.
You may not even realize you are doing this.
Trust me, she notices.
So you need to be VERY aware of your body language when you do talk to her.
Chances are that neither of you ended up realizing or even pursuing the dreams that gave you hope when you where younger.
Or maybe she was looking for you to "rescue" her from the life she had only to find that not much has changed.
Make sure that you at least treat her in the same adoring way that you did when you first met her.
You might have to go slow on this, though, otherwise she will just wonder what you want today and totally dismiss your efforts.
Also, attempt to remove negativity in your daily attitude and speech.
I know, life can really stink and it can seem like you get nailed daily from every direction.
Learn to roll with the punches, or at least let her know that she is your "sunshine on a rainy day" that you look forward to when everything else is gloomy.
Having her rediscover her love for you this way can have her chasing you instead of you desperately trying to "make" her love you and stay with you.