Are you naive when it comes to making a guy fall in love with you? Has this been an emotion that has always eluded you, but you'd like to change that? Have you already gone through tons of information to no avail? If you are surrounded by men who are eager to be your friend, but you'd like to bring it to a more sublime level, read on to find out what you can do.
Realize, right off the bat, that the friendship you already have with men is a great base for any long term relationship.
Too often this aspect of a romance is overlooked and women concentrate only on the sexual part of the relationship.
While this can be fun and easy and give you some sense of intimacy, it's not the best way to build a loving relationship.
Instead, take the friendship you already have and build on it.
In a sense you already have one foot in the door; you know what he likes, what he enjoys doing and perhaps you even know where he's going in life and what he's looking for.
Could it be you? Be honest in your assessment if you don't want to be disappointed.
If he wants a down home simple girl he can sit back and be comfortable with and you're the wild child who can't sit still for two minutes, conflict may end up being the biggest part of your relationship.
But if a wild child is exactly what he's looking for, dive in and let him see how you're what he needs.
Start small and know that this can take a bit of time.
Invite him to a fun party or activity you have planned.
Give him a chance to see you in a different light.
Perhaps he isn't even aware that you are this wild child and these outings with you will surprise him.
With this new perception of you, you'll have sowed a seed of interest in his head, perhaps even his heart.
Go out for a beer or coffee and spend the night talking.
Be prepared to listen and show him how understanding and compassionate you can be.