Relationship in Trouble? Basics Steps to Follow to Get the Love Back Into Your Life
A friend of mine never saw this coming.
Happily married (or so he thought) for over 25 years and then all of a sudden, the marriage was over.
Is your relationship in trouble and you don't even know it, just like my friend? Perhaps you do know it and would rather keep going as you are and hope that it will all turn out okay in the end.
Unless you want to end up like my friend did, I would strongly suggest that you take some action now to get the issues in your relationship sorted out so that you will never have to contend with a relationship in trouble ever again.
Sadly, many couples fail to understand the importance of having a regular "health check" of their relationship.
If you stop and think about this for a moment, you will realise that there are many aspects of daily life where we have things checked out.
If you are sick, you go to the doctor.
If your car is sluggish, you have it serviced.
If the roof leaks, you get it checked out.
And so on.
If you do all of these safety checks, why wouldn't you do a health check on your relationship? After all, having a rock solid relationship, where each of you is respected, loved and admired is one of life's greatest joys.
There is plenty of research available, indicating that couples in a happy relationship have less health issues than those going through conflict.
How do you go about doing a health check on your relationship I hear you ask? Well, you could go to a counsellor and seek help that way or you could do something much simpler (and cheaper) than that and that is communicate with each other.
There is nothing wrong with talking with your partner to see how they are feeling in the relationship.
You could do this in a structured way or it could be an informal chat.
Whatever works for you is fine so long as each of you is honest and speaks what's on your mind, both good and bad.
Once you have done this, you may unearth some issues that could be potentially damaging to your future together.
The great thing about what you have done is spoken honestly with each other and possibly identified potential problems.
Once you have this out in the open, you are well on the way, of putting actions in place to ensure that you will never end up like my friend did.
Relationship in trouble? I would love to hear you say "not anymore, because we have done a health check on our relationship and we are communicating with each other more than ever before".
It is a sad fact of life that relationships can end.
Having been a witness to my friend's demise, I know the hurt that comes with a relationship breakdown.
If you are going through pain in your love life right now, you can do what a lot of couples do and that is end it now.
If that is not how you want it to end, you should do something about it before it is too late.
Happily married (or so he thought) for over 25 years and then all of a sudden, the marriage was over.
Is your relationship in trouble and you don't even know it, just like my friend? Perhaps you do know it and would rather keep going as you are and hope that it will all turn out okay in the end.
Unless you want to end up like my friend did, I would strongly suggest that you take some action now to get the issues in your relationship sorted out so that you will never have to contend with a relationship in trouble ever again.
Sadly, many couples fail to understand the importance of having a regular "health check" of their relationship.
If you stop and think about this for a moment, you will realise that there are many aspects of daily life where we have things checked out.
If you are sick, you go to the doctor.
If your car is sluggish, you have it serviced.
If the roof leaks, you get it checked out.
And so on.
If you do all of these safety checks, why wouldn't you do a health check on your relationship? After all, having a rock solid relationship, where each of you is respected, loved and admired is one of life's greatest joys.
There is plenty of research available, indicating that couples in a happy relationship have less health issues than those going through conflict.
How do you go about doing a health check on your relationship I hear you ask? Well, you could go to a counsellor and seek help that way or you could do something much simpler (and cheaper) than that and that is communicate with each other.
There is nothing wrong with talking with your partner to see how they are feeling in the relationship.
You could do this in a structured way or it could be an informal chat.
Whatever works for you is fine so long as each of you is honest and speaks what's on your mind, both good and bad.
Once you have done this, you may unearth some issues that could be potentially damaging to your future together.
The great thing about what you have done is spoken honestly with each other and possibly identified potential problems.
Once you have this out in the open, you are well on the way, of putting actions in place to ensure that you will never end up like my friend did.
Relationship in trouble? I would love to hear you say "not anymore, because we have done a health check on our relationship and we are communicating with each other more than ever before".
It is a sad fact of life that relationships can end.
Having been a witness to my friend's demise, I know the hurt that comes with a relationship breakdown.
If you are going through pain in your love life right now, you can do what a lot of couples do and that is end it now.
If that is not how you want it to end, you should do something about it before it is too late.
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