The 2 Main Reasons That People Fail
Nobody wants to fail and nobody (of sane mind) seeks failure deliberately.
The fact is, however, that failure is a necessary part of success and unavoidable in life.
We all know the story of Thomas Edison and that he failed over 2000 times at making the light bulb; without these failures, success was not possible.
In a successful business, the name of the game is maximizing assets and eliminating liabilities.
In life (as in business), successes are an asset, and failures are a liability; one must maximize successes, and minimize failures.
Makes sense, right? And yet, failures can be so discouraging, even devastating.
The trick is the mindset! There are 2 main reasons that people fail: 1.
Internal Factors.
The human mind is both complex and yet simple at the same time.
From the moment we are born - and perhaps even before birth - our brain is vacuuming up information and processing it into little messages.
When information is repeated, it conditions the mind: positive conditioning creates positive result, and vice versa.
Very often, however, we end up with conflicting messages.
For example: I might clearly believe that money is good if I use it for goodness, and yet my subconscious message (that I am not really aware of) is telling me that money is the root of all evils in the world.
This is a classic case of a conflicting message that must be re-conditioned in order to avoid permanent financial failure.
Attitude is everything.
Attitude sets the 'Law of Attraction' in motion and attracts or repels (like a magnet) according to our mental attitude.
Therefore, it is our attitude - the consistency and content of our thought processes - that determines success or failure.
When our "emotional house" is in order, we can attract success upon success, naturally.
In my work as an Abundant Life Coach, one of the many items I teach is showing people how to eliminate internal negative and/or conflicting messages that will prevent abundance and success.
Through the use of "PACT" (Positive Affirmation Conditioning Training), one can understand and correct conscious and subconscious conflicting messages and condition the mind for abundance and success.
Positive affirmation Conditioning Training works for much more than simply corrective action on internal conflicting messages that block success.
Such positive conditioning - when practiced daily - creates a cycle of positive energy and action.
It is a miraculous natural law.
2.
External Factors.
Without question, much of life simply happens outside of our control, in the physical world.
Bad things just happen.
Many tragic events take place that are beyond our capacity to understand; they simply make no sense.
The death of a newborn or loved one is another classic example of an external factor that can affect success and failure.
Attitude alone - and conditioning for the positive - will not necessarily work right away.
Life is about the process of good balance.
There is a grieving process, for example, after we have experienced the death of a loved one.
These natural processes must be realized and respected.
It will do little or no good to attempt positive conditioning until the timing is right for that person.
In fact, timing is a vital element of all failure and success.
When we have failed, it just wasn't yet time for success for whatever reason.
Perhaps when we recognize the reason, the timing will then be correct.
If not, it is likely that there is still work (or a natural process) to be done...
it was not yet time.
In conclusion, the 2 reasons that people fail are due to internal and external factors.
Although this may seem an oversimplification, it is accurate, and sums it up neatly for the purposes of recognition, understanding, and the possibility for change.
For both abundance and success - as opposed to failure - we must embrace temporary failures, learn from them, recognize that there is much we are not necessarily meant to understand, and then act in the correct mind set.
Once again, the sole determining factor of success, abundance, and failure is our attitude.
Once we know that the only certain way to fail is to give up - or refuse to face something - then we can prevent permanent failure completely by never quitting.
A relentless attitude of gratitude is the key to all abundance, so long as we are in balance.
The fact is, however, that failure is a necessary part of success and unavoidable in life.
We all know the story of Thomas Edison and that he failed over 2000 times at making the light bulb; without these failures, success was not possible.
In a successful business, the name of the game is maximizing assets and eliminating liabilities.
In life (as in business), successes are an asset, and failures are a liability; one must maximize successes, and minimize failures.
Makes sense, right? And yet, failures can be so discouraging, even devastating.
The trick is the mindset! There are 2 main reasons that people fail: 1.
Internal Factors.
The human mind is both complex and yet simple at the same time.
From the moment we are born - and perhaps even before birth - our brain is vacuuming up information and processing it into little messages.
When information is repeated, it conditions the mind: positive conditioning creates positive result, and vice versa.
Very often, however, we end up with conflicting messages.
For example: I might clearly believe that money is good if I use it for goodness, and yet my subconscious message (that I am not really aware of) is telling me that money is the root of all evils in the world.
This is a classic case of a conflicting message that must be re-conditioned in order to avoid permanent financial failure.
Attitude is everything.
Attitude sets the 'Law of Attraction' in motion and attracts or repels (like a magnet) according to our mental attitude.
Therefore, it is our attitude - the consistency and content of our thought processes - that determines success or failure.
When our "emotional house" is in order, we can attract success upon success, naturally.
In my work as an Abundant Life Coach, one of the many items I teach is showing people how to eliminate internal negative and/or conflicting messages that will prevent abundance and success.
Through the use of "PACT" (Positive Affirmation Conditioning Training), one can understand and correct conscious and subconscious conflicting messages and condition the mind for abundance and success.
Positive affirmation Conditioning Training works for much more than simply corrective action on internal conflicting messages that block success.
Such positive conditioning - when practiced daily - creates a cycle of positive energy and action.
It is a miraculous natural law.
2.
External Factors.
Without question, much of life simply happens outside of our control, in the physical world.
Bad things just happen.
Many tragic events take place that are beyond our capacity to understand; they simply make no sense.
The death of a newborn or loved one is another classic example of an external factor that can affect success and failure.
Attitude alone - and conditioning for the positive - will not necessarily work right away.
Life is about the process of good balance.
There is a grieving process, for example, after we have experienced the death of a loved one.
These natural processes must be realized and respected.
It will do little or no good to attempt positive conditioning until the timing is right for that person.
In fact, timing is a vital element of all failure and success.
When we have failed, it just wasn't yet time for success for whatever reason.
Perhaps when we recognize the reason, the timing will then be correct.
If not, it is likely that there is still work (or a natural process) to be done...
it was not yet time.
In conclusion, the 2 reasons that people fail are due to internal and external factors.
Although this may seem an oversimplification, it is accurate, and sums it up neatly for the purposes of recognition, understanding, and the possibility for change.
For both abundance and success - as opposed to failure - we must embrace temporary failures, learn from them, recognize that there is much we are not necessarily meant to understand, and then act in the correct mind set.
Once again, the sole determining factor of success, abundance, and failure is our attitude.
Once we know that the only certain way to fail is to give up - or refuse to face something - then we can prevent permanent failure completely by never quitting.
A relentless attitude of gratitude is the key to all abundance, so long as we are in balance.
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