How to Know Whether to Get Back With an Ex Who Wants You Back
It is not uncommon to find people who dated and have broken up come back together.
Sometimes it could be the party who initiated the break up that wants it back, other times, it is the person who got dumped that wants the relationship back.
Whichever way, it is not wrong to come back together with an ex.
It could even be a plus, if the things which should have been done before the coming back together was done.
It is only disastrous if there is a coming together without proper evaluation of the things happenings that occurred before the initial break up.
Here I simply want to help you make the right choice.
I don't know your ex and so I cannot tell you straight away whether to continue with the relationship.
To help you, I will only ask a few questions, it is by your answer to these questions that you will decide whether to get back with the so called ex.
If you are a lady and your ex used to abuse you physically, I will not mix words, the answer is no.
Do not get back together with an ex who used to beat you up, no matter how much promises He makes to you, no matter how sincere he seems to be, tell him its over between you two.
Sometimes you have to let your mind have control over your heart as there is no such thing as blind love.
If your ex was not the physically abusing type, you have to ask yourself whether you are still in love with the person.
If you find out that what you feel is anything but love, then there is no need to waste any time.
Tell the person the truth, if you feel comfortable having the person as a friend then fine, but make sure you make the person aware of how things are.
If there is still love between you, then you should make sure that you are both ready to correct the mistakes of the past.
Discuss what happened between you find ways to correct them.
If it was a habit, settle it, if your ex is not ready to stop this habit, then say no to getting back together.
If it is a habit on your part, tell yourself the truth about the possibility of stopping the habit.
If you can't make it known to your ex.
If he or she is OK with it, then your love life can continue once more.
Sometimes it could be the party who initiated the break up that wants it back, other times, it is the person who got dumped that wants the relationship back.
Whichever way, it is not wrong to come back together with an ex.
It could even be a plus, if the things which should have been done before the coming back together was done.
It is only disastrous if there is a coming together without proper evaluation of the things happenings that occurred before the initial break up.
Here I simply want to help you make the right choice.
I don't know your ex and so I cannot tell you straight away whether to continue with the relationship.
To help you, I will only ask a few questions, it is by your answer to these questions that you will decide whether to get back with the so called ex.
If you are a lady and your ex used to abuse you physically, I will not mix words, the answer is no.
Do not get back together with an ex who used to beat you up, no matter how much promises He makes to you, no matter how sincere he seems to be, tell him its over between you two.
Sometimes you have to let your mind have control over your heart as there is no such thing as blind love.
If your ex was not the physically abusing type, you have to ask yourself whether you are still in love with the person.
If you find out that what you feel is anything but love, then there is no need to waste any time.
Tell the person the truth, if you feel comfortable having the person as a friend then fine, but make sure you make the person aware of how things are.
If there is still love between you, then you should make sure that you are both ready to correct the mistakes of the past.
Discuss what happened between you find ways to correct them.
If it was a habit, settle it, if your ex is not ready to stop this habit, then say no to getting back together.
If it is a habit on your part, tell yourself the truth about the possibility of stopping the habit.
If you can't make it known to your ex.
If he or she is OK with it, then your love life can continue once more.
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