Everyday there are broken hearted people who somehow manage to win back the love of their ex.
What separates these people from all of the others who can never seem to reconnect? How are some people able to overcome the obstacles that are thrown in their way and somehow get through to their partner? Many relationships have a strong enough foundation to survive a breakup but are never able to get back off the ground because the person trying to win back their ex makes one or both of the following mistakes.
Use pity to get them back You should never ever under any circumstances try to get your ex back into your life by evoking pity by way of an emotional breakdown.
You might get their attention for a brief period of time but you need to look longer term.
Whatever attention you grab using pity as a tactic will be short lived and will not be a genuine sign of love on your ex's part.
While they may let you back into their life temporarily it is only to comfort you until you can stand on your own two feet again and they will bolt the first chance they get.
If you come across clingy or needy you will ruin your chances of getting back your ex.
Instead, save the emotional meltdowns for your pillow and not your ex's sleeve.
Argue them back Face it, the breakup happened and the only way your ex is coming back is if they want to.
Therefore, don't try to convince them that the two of you belong together.
Your relationship is not a court case and you will not be able to win them back by simply presenting a good argument.
Instead, you need to show them why you are right for them.
This involves creating pleasant moments with them once you reestablish contact.