Do You Get Jealous When Other Men Flirt With Your Girl?
It all started for me when a friend of mine was flirting with a girl I was dating.
I could see how she responded to his flirting.
This crushed me.
I felt that I had no power, and didn't really know what to do.
I wasn't sure if I should act and do something or leave it.
So I asked her about it, and she got all weird with me, denied that she was flirting.
Eventually he took her away from me, and she left to be with him.
I began to wonder how I could ever trust women again, and how I could go into future relationships.
It was a very tough time.
The first thing you need to realise that I learned from this experience is that you should not define your life in terms of any one girl.
This is the worst thing you can do.
Having a girlfriend is great, because she makes you happy, and she is someone you want to spend time with.
But that's it.
It doesn't make you any more worthy as a person or any different.
Your girlfriend should not be the focus of your life.
She doesn't want to be number one, she wants to be a close second.
Read that sentence again.
You have a higher purpose that dictates your life.
You have other passions, and she is with you as a companion.
Be willing to walk away, and that will trigger something inside of her that will make her want to stay.
Women can only experience real passion if she believes on some level, that she could lose you.
If you are too tight, you become dependent, and they will cease to value you, because they think you need them more than they need you.
A relationship should be happy, if it is not, then why be in it? It is better to be single than to be in a relationship that is making you unhappy.
Women don't want to be allowed to always do what they want when they are with you.
They don't respond well to you placing all your focus on them.
And please remember, if your girlfriend ever cheats on you with another guy, then it does not change you in any way.
It will not affect your value in the slightest.
Have options, let your girl see that other women like you.
Talk to other girls while you are with her.
Become that attractive guy who other women want to be with.
I could see how she responded to his flirting.
This crushed me.
I felt that I had no power, and didn't really know what to do.
I wasn't sure if I should act and do something or leave it.
So I asked her about it, and she got all weird with me, denied that she was flirting.
Eventually he took her away from me, and she left to be with him.
I began to wonder how I could ever trust women again, and how I could go into future relationships.
It was a very tough time.
The first thing you need to realise that I learned from this experience is that you should not define your life in terms of any one girl.
This is the worst thing you can do.
Having a girlfriend is great, because she makes you happy, and she is someone you want to spend time with.
But that's it.
It doesn't make you any more worthy as a person or any different.
Your girlfriend should not be the focus of your life.
She doesn't want to be number one, she wants to be a close second.
Read that sentence again.
You have a higher purpose that dictates your life.
You have other passions, and she is with you as a companion.
Be willing to walk away, and that will trigger something inside of her that will make her want to stay.
Women can only experience real passion if she believes on some level, that she could lose you.
If you are too tight, you become dependent, and they will cease to value you, because they think you need them more than they need you.
A relationship should be happy, if it is not, then why be in it? It is better to be single than to be in a relationship that is making you unhappy.
Women don't want to be allowed to always do what they want when they are with you.
They don't respond well to you placing all your focus on them.
And please remember, if your girlfriend ever cheats on you with another guy, then it does not change you in any way.
It will not affect your value in the slightest.
Have options, let your girl see that other women like you.
Talk to other girls while you are with her.
Become that attractive guy who other women want to be with.
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