You can have your marriage go the way you want it and have the joy that comes from it.
You can get better and improve on yourself.
You can put a check on your feelings especially that belligerence that is aroused by a real or supposed wrong done to you.
If put a hold and master your emotions, you are on your way to a fulfilled married life.
Secret #1 If you really want to enjoy your marriage then you must restrain your anger towards your spouse when you are wronged by holding yourself and not letting loose the actions that you want to display at that point.
Learn to discipline yourself when you want to talk.
Don't be quick to speak.
Let the love you have for your spouse manifest in your reactions.
try to stay calm so that you will not do what you never planned to do, which you will regret at the end.
Know that anger is the dangerous weapon that destroys a marriage.
Don't let it scatter what took you time to build.
Learn to subject your emotions on check.
You have what it takes to control it.
Rule you emotions and don't let it have control over you.
Secret #2 When you cannot handle it, go for assistance or even counseling.
Seek for medical advice on how to sort out things.
Go to a good guidance and counselor, this will be of tremendous help to you.
Know that there are people who have passed through what you are passing through and they were able to come out of it.
Find out how they got out of it and be on top of things.
Don't shy away from the help that will come your way.
You can read good books and improve yourself.
Be patient and at the time, rule your world.
Secret #3 When you are having the feeling that is oriented towards some real or supposed grievance towards your spouse, be able to resist the urge to react and bust out.
If you cannot stand it, change you position.
For instance, you can quietly shift aside when you are annoyed to calm yourself.
You mustn't bust out at that very time.
Be matured about it and play by set of different rules.
This will help avert the situation and save you the trouble that would have befallen your marriage.
Don't speak when you are furious.
Know that two wrongs can't make it right if you think you have the right to pour out your rage.
Secret #4 The best way to handle your emotions when you are grieved is to continually pray about it.
Talk to God about it and believe He can help you.
Believe you can! believe you can be better.
Divinity is at work in you; manifest the best in you and exhibit your excellence.
Your marriage can be what you want it to be.
Copyright, Ugomma Deborah Nwosu