Getting an ex girlfriend to take you back can be a challenge to say the least.
No one teaches you in high school or college how to repair a relationship or how to recreate attraction with an ex girlfriend to get her to take you back.
The only way to learn is to go through the experience yourself and hope you make the right decisions along the way.
Unless of course you get some help from someone who's "been there and done that".
For most men, getting an ex girlfriend back is a trial and error process.
However, this is a hit and miss strategy.
Make the right decisions and you win her back.
Make the wrong decisions and "KABOOM", the entire relationship blows up in your face never to be repaired again.
Breakups and relationships are vast, complex topics that sound easier to comprehend than they really are.
I mean, getting a girlfriend back can't be that hard, can it? You wouldn't think so until you realize that many of the "right" things to do are also counter intuitive.
For example, a common method for getting an ex back is the concept of "avoid and ignore her to make her want you again".
It seems counter intuitive, but it works.
It's important to seek out the advice of an expert rather than relying on your good buddy, Joe, who will likely tell you something like, "There are plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of bears in the forest.
" He means well, but what can you really do with that advice? Not much of anything.
And, besides, you really only want ONE particular fish, right? Relationships are always works in progress and getting an ex girlfriend to take you back is no different.
Relationships take effort to start.
They take effort to maintain, and they take time and effort to fix when they're broken.
It's easy to take a girlfriend for granted when things are going great, and by the time we realize this it's often too late.
There is some good news though.
Most relationships can be salvaged.
Most people at least get a crack at repairing things.
It's rare for two people to just split and never have another thought about it.
But you have to learn to avoid all the small mistakes that can build up and lead to one devastating event.
The worst part is, these mistakes work slowly and tear your relationship apart behind the scenes.
They're like a volcano that slowly builds pressure until a huge eruption occurs.
If you've never gone through a breakup before, you won't even realize you're making them.
What you think will bring your ex girlfriend back may actually be pushing her further away.