The sight of your ex girlfriend on the arm of another man drives you crazy! This only proves that you have not gotten over her as yet.
The thing to do is be honest with yourself and find out if you really want her back.
If the answer is yes, then go ahead and try out these techniques - you will be successful! Take heart and accept the present situation You can't go out there and rip her off the other guy.
This sort of jealous and desperate attitude will only make you look needy and immature.
She will feel that she make the right decision in leaving you.
All you have to do is accept it for the present and plan for the future.
Stop calling her everyday Calling, texting and mailing her every day is just going to drive her further away and make her want to change her telephone number and email address.
Don't show her that you want her back.
Instead be cool and distant.
Stop all contact for a while and make her wonder about you.
Remember the important details The trick is to send her a card on her birthday or remember other anniversaries without being too pushy or aggressive.
This way she knows that you have not forgotten her but is happy to keep her at arm's distance.
It will make her think of you and how much you have changed.
Subtle communication is important Staying away completely and for too long is a mistake.
She will learn to forget you after a while.
Instead make sure that that you keep the ties between you strong.
Don't give her the opportunity to forget the past, instead make her remember them by deliberate yet subtle reminders.
Be faithful When she sees that in spite of the breakup you have not dated other girls or painted the town red dating other girls, she will feel honored and grateful in her heart for the fact that you have stayed faithful to her.
This show of loyalty will make her have second thoughts.
Make the necessary changes You know the areas that need to be changed as far as you are concerned.
Be honest and have a reality check.
Prove that you have changed.
Let her see a new side of you.
Be patient and understanding.
The very fact that you show her that you respect her decision and are willing to wait - will endear you to her.
Get back into shape Were you too busy to look as good as you looked when you first met? If you have been lazy about your appearance and allowed the physical side of your relationship get boring and predictable it is no surprise that she has lost interest in you and has got involved with another man.
Get back into shape and start looking attractive and as handsome as ever! This will revive her feelings for you.