Can you feel or see a breakup in the distance getting closer and closer? That's the way break ups usually are, predictable.
I learned so much when I was winning back my ex girlfriend, unfortunately I didn't know these tips before our breakup happened.
They would have saved me an immense amount of time and energy.
So here's three things that will help you stop your own breakup before it's too late: Start Over Over time things can get stale and routine.
Remember in the beginning when you couldn't keep your hands off each other, always flirting and having fun together? Get back to that state by starting over at the start.
Go on dates, go and have fun together, flirt.
Fall in love with each other all over again.
Talk about all the things you did for the first time together and what you loved about them.
Define The Problem And Fix It Often, people try to ignore the biggest problem and just go on with the relationship, ignoring the problem.
This doesn't work.
If there's a problem, everyone knows it and it's going to get in the way.
You have to know the answer to this question: is there one thing that, if it was fixed, would make the relationship smoother and healthier? The first step is to define that problem.
If it's money, do something together that will put a few extra bucks in the bank, or figure out a budget where you can cut some of your costs.
If it's physical, ask each other what you can do to make it more enjoyable.
Whatever the problem is, the second step is to ask each other how to fix it and work on the solution together.
Don't Take Them For Granted Just like we said up above, things can get stale and routine.
We stop noticing the small things we used to, and we stop saying please and thank you.
If you're doing this, you won't even notice it.
When most people feel neglected, they won't let you know right away.
They try to deal with it themselves until eventually it builds and builds until it's too much for them to take.
That's when it all comes out in one explosion.
Even if you feel like you're the one being taken for granted, set the tone for the relationship and lead by example.
Think back to when you first met, what were those little things you fell in love with? Take notice of those things again, and say thank you for everything like you mean it, be specific.
Thank them in a way they'll really enjoy.
You know what they like so do something special for them as a big thank you every once in a while.
They'll love you for it.