I know you have scene it before.
A woman walking with a man with a big belly, short, and bald.
She seems to be younger then him.
She even seems to be in love with him.
How could this be? How can you do this? One of the issues that most men have to deal with is the fact that they are simply average in terms of looks.
For some of us it gets even worse then average.
Some of use are down right ugly.
But why would a woman date a man like this? Reason #1: He doesn't believe he needs to be good looking The ugly guy doesn't believe that women will ever like him for his good looks.
He knows that he needs to master other skills.
He shows her that he is exciting and fun to be around.
He has great social skills.
This impresses her friends and her family.
The good looking guys assume that every woman should like him just because he has good looks.
This means the good looking guy will lack in other areas.
Some guys will try to buy her love with money, gifts, and favors.
That's fine as long as you want a girlfriend that uses you for those reasons.
Reason #2: She gets to like him for who is Just about all women like guys who like her for who she is.
This also works the other way around.
Almost all women like a guy who she is attracted to for who he is.
She doesn't like a guy for what he does for her.
She is attracted to men who make her feel good.
If you try to buy her with money, drinks, flowers, and other things you will rob her of this feeling of being attracted to you.
She will feel like you are trying to force her into liking you.
Women like it when it feels more natural and as if it was just meant to be.
Reason #3: Ugly men go after what they want Successful people don't make excuses for their failure.
"I'm too fat!" "I don't make enough money.
" "I'm not good looking enough.
" This screams failure and low self-esteem.
Its all true if you believe it.
Ugly men don't think like this.
They surround themselves withpositive people and have a great attitude.
"I have so much to offer a woman.
" "There are so many great women to meet.
""Witch girl should I approach first.
" This attitude allows them to go after what they want and to feel good about themselves.
Reason #4: Ugly men are masculine Women are attracted to men who are masculine.
In many cases these ugly guys demonstrate masculinity better then some of the good looking guys.
Sure some of these guys look great, but if they don't bring any masculine traits forward it would be like dating a woman instead of a man.
Reason #5: Ugly men are honest Allot of men hide things from women out of fear.
There afraid to show any vulnerability and who they really are.
There fear causes them to try and do things that would impress her or things that would allow them to not be rejected by her.
Ugly men do the complete opposite.
They say "Hey look at me.
This is the way I am.
I'm not perfect, but I'm proud of who I am.
" This is being honest with a woman.
She knows what she is going to get with you.
This allows her to trust you more then the other guys.
With the other guys she doesn't know what she is going to get.
She doesn't know if she can believe the things they say or do.