How to Become a Vibrational Match to Your Desire
There is one facet of law of attraction (LOA) that will make or break every manifestation every time: becoming a vibrational match to your desire. This article will quickly show you how to do just that.
First, what does it mean to "be a vibrational match to your desire"?
To be a vibrational match to your desire means to think, feel, and even act (though this can almost always be tied back to a thought or feeling…) as if your desire was already happening. In other words, to manifest is to live as if your desire already happened or is happening.
So, how does one do this?
To vibrationally match your desire, you must align thought, feeling, and action with your desire. You must live as if your desire has already happened. And further, you must become okay with the fact that desires are not instantly manifested; they take time to come into being.
Okay, so how do I do that? How do I act as if things are already coming to be? And what purpose does that have?
Well, it's very simple to be vibrationally congruent with your desire(s): think, feel, and act as if your desire(s have) already happened. To do this, you need to have faith in yourself and the universe—this is the most important element to staying congruent: you must first believe that your desires can and will come into being.
But this can be difficult to come by because of many habits (beliefs, actions, thoughts) you may have that hinder you from believing in yourself or the world. These habits are called "resistance" because insofar as they stop you from being congruent with your beliefs, they resist your ability to allow abundance into your life. The more you resist, the less you'll be able to allow what you want to come to you.
The best way to release resistance is to move yourself up the emotional ladder. The better you feel, the more you are able to deliberately create the things you hope to see in your life. To do this, there are many processes. My favorite processes involve appreciation because I deeply care about all of the things around me and focusing on this reminds me of what I live for, but there are many others and depending on what type of person you are (I'm an idealist for sure), you may find other processes more or less helpful.
But to get you started, let's focus on one simple process of appreciating things…
To do this, you simply need to focus your attention on something in front of you, and notice all of the things you appreciate about it and NOTHING else. Try to think of as many things that you appreciate about those things as possible. And if you'd like to extend it, think about all the time that that object has had the qualities you appreciate about it—for example, think about all the good times you've had with your Xbox.
For instance, in front of me is a Pepsi. I appreciate the refreshment it offers, the joyous flavor, the wonderful feeling of ecstasy it gives me. Also in front of me is my iMac. I appreciate its large size—amazingly helpful for projects because I can see many things at once, the nearly flawless working of the computer and operating system, the media I have access to on it and through it, the hours I've spent productively working on it. And my ipod touch, one of my favorite possessions: it entertains me when bored and allows me a simple to use vessel to listen to all of the audio lectures I could ever want to listen to—my favorite thing in life!
Anyway, by now you've gotten the picture that I'm easily amused and very thankful for the things around me. Even minor little things. Though it may sound stupid at first, if you can appreciate the things around you, the way you interact with them will necessarily change. And as a way to move yourself up the emotional ladder, the power of appreciation is amazing.
I've used appreciation to alter situations repeatedly, but it seems to work amazingly well when applied to relationships with humans. One powerful application was with my roommate and best friend: she's apt to passive-aggressive behavior and judging. At the time, I was experimenting with appreciation processes and decided to make a short list of all the things I appreciated about everyone in my immediate experience. I wrote out her good qualities honestly: caring, helpful, giving, appreciative, thoughtful... And I focused on all the times she'd been those things—and nothing else. It's amazing, as I did this task, she slowly began to morph and openly decided to work on herself—and has been far less passive-aggressive ever since.
First, what does it mean to "be a vibrational match to your desire"?
To be a vibrational match to your desire means to think, feel, and even act (though this can almost always be tied back to a thought or feeling…) as if your desire was already happening. In other words, to manifest is to live as if your desire already happened or is happening.
So, how does one do this?
To vibrationally match your desire, you must align thought, feeling, and action with your desire. You must live as if your desire has already happened. And further, you must become okay with the fact that desires are not instantly manifested; they take time to come into being.
Okay, so how do I do that? How do I act as if things are already coming to be? And what purpose does that have?
Well, it's very simple to be vibrationally congruent with your desire(s): think, feel, and act as if your desire(s have) already happened. To do this, you need to have faith in yourself and the universe—this is the most important element to staying congruent: you must first believe that your desires can and will come into being.
But this can be difficult to come by because of many habits (beliefs, actions, thoughts) you may have that hinder you from believing in yourself or the world. These habits are called "resistance" because insofar as they stop you from being congruent with your beliefs, they resist your ability to allow abundance into your life. The more you resist, the less you'll be able to allow what you want to come to you.
The best way to release resistance is to move yourself up the emotional ladder. The better you feel, the more you are able to deliberately create the things you hope to see in your life. To do this, there are many processes. My favorite processes involve appreciation because I deeply care about all of the things around me and focusing on this reminds me of what I live for, but there are many others and depending on what type of person you are (I'm an idealist for sure), you may find other processes more or less helpful.
But to get you started, let's focus on one simple process of appreciating things…
To do this, you simply need to focus your attention on something in front of you, and notice all of the things you appreciate about it and NOTHING else. Try to think of as many things that you appreciate about those things as possible. And if you'd like to extend it, think about all the time that that object has had the qualities you appreciate about it—for example, think about all the good times you've had with your Xbox.
For instance, in front of me is a Pepsi. I appreciate the refreshment it offers, the joyous flavor, the wonderful feeling of ecstasy it gives me. Also in front of me is my iMac. I appreciate its large size—amazingly helpful for projects because I can see many things at once, the nearly flawless working of the computer and operating system, the media I have access to on it and through it, the hours I've spent productively working on it. And my ipod touch, one of my favorite possessions: it entertains me when bored and allows me a simple to use vessel to listen to all of the audio lectures I could ever want to listen to—my favorite thing in life!
Anyway, by now you've gotten the picture that I'm easily amused and very thankful for the things around me. Even minor little things. Though it may sound stupid at first, if you can appreciate the things around you, the way you interact with them will necessarily change. And as a way to move yourself up the emotional ladder, the power of appreciation is amazing.
I've used appreciation to alter situations repeatedly, but it seems to work amazingly well when applied to relationships with humans. One powerful application was with my roommate and best friend: she's apt to passive-aggressive behavior and judging. At the time, I was experimenting with appreciation processes and decided to make a short list of all the things I appreciated about everyone in my immediate experience. I wrote out her good qualities honestly: caring, helpful, giving, appreciative, thoughtful... And I focused on all the times she'd been those things—and nothing else. It's amazing, as I did this task, she slowly began to morph and openly decided to work on herself—and has been far less passive-aggressive ever since.
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