Nowadays, lap dancing is gaining immense popularity and this form of dancing is featured in many night clubs that cater to men however many women don't know that they can give their partner this special treat right in their own home.
Learning how to give a lap dance is quite easy and can be done by reading articles on the subject or watching demonstration video clips.
Here we have discussed a couple of facts related to lap dancing, such as how to dress, how to set the scene and how to give a lap dance in a way which will make any woman sensuous and attractive so that her partner gets impressed with her.
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Your Partner - The first thing which is needed in order to be trained at how to give a lap dance is a partner.
Ladies who are planning the lap dance as a surprise for their partner could make use of an armchair to practice instead.
When using a partner the armchair is still necessary for them to sit on.
The partner should be aware that he should not touch the dance performer while the performance is on so that she can do the lap dance properly.
This provides the lap dancer control over the situation and can make the performance even sexier for many men.
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Sexy Outfit - To get into the right mood and make the dance performance successful, you will have to choose your costume carefully.
You can consider something like a lacy lingerie or a sexy dress which you think would excite your partner for sure.
It doesn't have to be fancy or outrageous as long as your intended audience finds it exciting.
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Romantic Setting - The room where the lap dance performance is intended to take place should be set accordingly.
There is no need to completely redo the decor of the room before dancing however it does mean that a little thought and care should go into preparing the room.
Dim lights or scarves over lights will help to set the mood as will some candles\A dimly lit setting would be ideal and for this you can just drape a colored soft cloth over the light fittings.
You can even use candles.
Play music which will go with the type of lap dance which you will be performing.
To start with play some soft music and then increase the tempo as you move on.
Just be sure you are not distracted in any way during the dance! Now that the mood and room setting is all planned out it is time to learn how to lap dance in an erotic manner.
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Sexy Moves - To make the dance performance a success, learn and practice some of the best erotic dance moves.
You can find relevant information on many websites.
Demonstration video clips by professional performers could be of great help.
The recipient should be made seated comfortably on a chair with his hands placed on the sides.
Start the music you have chosen and move towards your partner in an erotic way while keeping eye contact with him..
Put both of your hands on the chair's back and one knee between his legs.
Arch your back to make your breasts prominent and move your body slowly in a sensual figure eight.
Rest one of your elbows on the arm rest of the chair and raise your leg over the back of the chair then slowly move your hands all the way down to your ankle and then in the opposite direction.
Slide your body slowly down your partner so that your breasts, belly and hips contact him.
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Finish Up - The next move will be to rise and turn around so that the back of the dance performer is presented to the recipient.
Then she must try to bend down while move her hands sensuously on over her legs.
Then while keeping her hands over the crotch area she should turn and head and look over her shoulder at her partner to give him a sexy wink.
Then she should take a couple of steps backwards with her back still turned and place both hands over the chair's arm rests.
Then lowering her body towards her partner, she should try to move her hips in a sensuous, rhythmic figure eight and then a back and forth motion.
That completes a lap dance routine and the dancer can decide if she will let her partner use his hands!