There are many guys who have a bold confidence, which makes them brave enough to ask girls out on date just because it pleases them.
In contrast to that, you might be searching for reassurance and guidance.
If putting your heart on the line isn't what you want to do quite yet, hold out and see if the woman flirts with you.
If so, it can be almost guaranteed that she will accept your date request.
But hold on! How do you know if the girl is flirting with you or simply being nice? If she smiles, focus on it.
However, the smile alone is difficult to determine whether the girl is just being nice or flirting, but it all depends on certain things.
To determine, quickly analyze it.
There can be expressionless smiles, which look strained and forced.
In this case, she is not flirting, just going out of her way to be nice.
In contrast to that, you will have the smiles of excitement and seduction.
When a girl is excited about making a contact, she will smile, giggle and even blush somewhat.
That is flirting in its finest.
A seductive smile means that she has something happening that is beyond the obvious.
The moment is right; she's ripe for the plucking, so approach her.
But of course, with that kind of smile she might beat you to it.
In case the girl makes eye contact, you have to realize that eye contact can be tricky, because we all make eye contact; it doesn't necessarily mean that she is flirting with you.
When we enter a room our eyes automatically scan it.
During that instant, we often make eye contact with someone.
Therefore, if eye contact is made from a distance it might just be a coincidence.
However, if the girl approaches, looks you deep into the eyes while talking, she is definitely flirting at its most provocative level, or at the very least she is getting a charge out of your conversation.
If she checks out your body, as stated before, some women may hold a seductive smile.
But there is the casual once look over.
On the other hand, a good sign it is time to make your move is if she smiles while she looks your body over and holds it, which signals a wide open door for you to act now.
It will work to your advantage, so don't let it slip by.
If the girl draws herself away from the crowd pay attention! If you are interested in her and she is part of a group, but allows herself to drift away from it, watch her moves.
If you happen to be at the bar, does she come and stand next to you when she gets her drink? The odds are that she is not only flirting, but also waiting for you to strike up a conversation.
In contrast to that, does she separate from the crowd and head off in another direction? Until the girl heads for the front door or the bathroom, it's likely that her attention is focused on someone else.
In that case, she may be arranging the fate meeting of another.
If she moves toward you.
If it is a public setting and the girl approaches you, the chances are that she is flirting with you.
With 20 other guys in the room and she singles you out, come on, how's that? It may be because she finds something sexually appealing about you.
If you are not sure, wait for other signs of flirting.
Does she teasingly smile, make eye contact, ask questions, or stay and talk to you rather than hanging out with her friends.
If so, she is laying it on thick.
At this point you may have a good clue as to whether a girl is flirting with you or just being friendly, so you may be wondering what to do next.
If she isn't flirting with you, don't let that slow you down.
Go ahead and still make contact.
Asking for a date right away may not be proper, or in the stars, but you can still strike up a casual conversation.
You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
In the event that she is flirting with you, well that's another story.
You should dive right in.
Don't assume that a girl who likes you and has been giving off signals is going to make the first contact.
Most females flirt and then wait for a reaction.
This is because they want to be sure that the guy, which is you, is definitely interested.
If you are, make it obvious.
Introduce yourself and launch off into a conversation.
After striking up a conversation with a girl, regardless of whether she had actually flirted or not, if you still like her, then ask her out.
"Wow, this was great, why don't I give you my number and maybe we'll get together sometime?" a phrase that works very well.
This line is good to use because it shows your interest without applying too much pressure.
Never pressure a girl to set a date right then at that moment unless she offers.
You want a pleasant date with a girl because she genuinely likes you, not because she was coerced into it.