Are you feeling shattered after your loved one quit the relationship? Well, it is quite natural that after spending some unforgettable moments with your partner, you had convinced yourself that you had found the ideal partner to spend the rest of your life with.
And now that you are feeling pushed against the wall, you might be ready to get in your Ex's company again, even as a friend! While there are several ways to get your Ex back after a breakup, choosing the path of friendship isn't the most recommended.
So are you asking people how you can get your Ex back without having to pretend as a friend? Well, for starters, just overcome your instincts.
You have acted enough on your instincts and that has got you in a deep hole so stop trusting your gut feelings, at least for the moment! You might be getting the impulse to drag your Ex back into your life by pleading them, but that's the last thing you would want to do.
Just think about it, why would your Ex partner want to return to a person who is a LOSER? By showing your desperation you will proving yourself a loser, so don't you ever make this mistake, or you cannot get your Ex back! Some love gurus may advise you to crawl back into your Ex's life by starting an intimate friendship.
While they are right in saying that you will be able to get in your Ex's company, it is not a certain way of winning the heart of your Ex.
In fact, more often than not, people end up heart broken when they choose this dangerous path, watching over helplessly as their Ex replaces them with another partner.
So what is the way to get your Ex back without playing the 'friendship' card? Well, now you are in a position where you have few allies and piles of free time on your side, so you have to utilize this time to make yourself a more lovable person.
Indulge in your favorite pastimes and start regaining all your lost qualities.
You must bear in mind that you have to become the person you originally were, in order to get your Ex back into your life.
While the task at hand may sound difficult, you need to go step by step and soon you'll find yourself sailing along.
Don't shy away from parties and gatherings as making new friends will help you regain your self-confidence and you will start taking pleasure in being yourself again! All this while your Ex will be wreaking havoc on his or her nerves as they will be getting curious as to what or 'whom' is keeping you so busy.
If you had thought that your Ex had left you because they had stopped loving you, you wee wrong, and the proof of this will show up at this stage.
Your Ex will start missing you and they will finally break the deadlock by calling you.
And as soon as that passes you will find yourself back in your Ex's arms again.
Now you have found out how to get your Ex back, so go on and resume your broken relationship!