What makes a man fall in love? You know when you're in love, how do you get him there? Women fall harder and more frequently owing to the simple overlooked calamitous confusion between love and lust.
Making him fall in love is as simple as recognizing where you are at in your relationship.
Lust is animal attraction.
The thing that girds his loins.
It is sex, it is base, it is fleeting in most cases.
And for the most part he is not to blame.
Whether it's genetic wiring, or your use of makeup, heels, and clothing has been subject to discussion since before Mary Quant invented the miniskirt.
Attraction is attraction.
Lust, however, like all fires is something that will exhaust itself.
A fire that given too much oxygen will consume itself.
The only question becomes...
what will emerge in it's place.
Indifference, friendship, the end of the affair or..
..
LOVE.
Men cannot, or do not recognize the difference.
Often, however, they are left with this need to continue with this person despite the initial attraction mellowing.
This is where your actions during the steaminess of the original romance and moment of attraction will determine whether he falls in love with you or not.
Were you his friend, did you spend time talking about his interests.
He can be trained later, but he will stay or go based on your earlier actions.
After a night of incredible love making did you ask about his day, or just insist on cuddling, something few men are comfortable with, for a couple of hours while complaining about your job.
They need help, they are not at fault but seem to have been born this way.
Remember your presence and comfort level they have with you during the onset of a sexual relationship will determine whether or not he falls in love with you.
Sad but true.