Break ups are hard and if you are facing one, you may be feeling desperate and hopeless.
When you are in this emotional mindset, bad things can and will happen.
In this article, I would like to offer you 5 mistakes to avoid so that you can begin restoring your relationship with your ex.
Each of these things are going to do nothing but bring up  negative feelings in your ex and solidify their reasoning for breaking up in the first place.
Therefore, no matter how hard it is to NOT do these things, it is imperative that you do not.
Remember, the ultimate goal is to get your ex back.
Mistake #1- Not agreeing with the break up- Agree with them and walk away until you can get your feeling under control.
Objectivity is what you need, not emotional reactions that will cause problems.
Mistake #2- Pleading and Bargaining with your ex- You look desperate and no matter what, desperation is a turn off and will ultimately push them farther away.
Mistake #3- Using guilt- This may appear to work at first, but in the end, it will do nothing but bring up negative feelings in your ex.
Mistake #4- Calling and Texting- You need to give the relationship time and space.
Calling and texting is actually a form of smothering the relationship and although it makes you feel better in the moment, when they do not' respond, you will only feel worse, and the relationship will be more damaged.
Mistake #5- Arguing with Your Ex- Arguments rarely results in changing the other person's mind.
So do not argue.
Step away from the relationship, follow the other 4 tips, and the ones I will share in the future, and let them change their own mind.
This is very  important.