After the breakup your ex will come back to you only if you take the correct steps, one misstep and all your chances of a tearful reunion will come to naught. Not only will you have to plan each move carefully you will also have to avoid some common pitfalls in your endeavor to get your ex back. Here are some of the deadly mistakes that you must avoid.

Overreacting to the breakup.
Breakup is not the end of the world and your problems will not be solved if you cling and cry like hungry newborn baby. Violent reactions, cursing and abusing will only convince your ex that the breakup or split was a good idea after all.

Jealousy as tool to get your ex back.
Jealousy is a double edged sword and it can cut both ways. An over possessive ex will simply loose his/her cool and attack your dummy date either physically or verbally. It certainly is not a win, win situation with a temperamental ex around.

Desperation
Your ex is not going to come back even if you send a thousand emails and text messages. Nor is your ex going to feel sad that you stand outside his or her office/home with a sad look. This will only show your desperation and will convince your ex that your immaturity far exceeds your plus points. Do not harass your ex with your constant presence.

Spiraling out of control
Although your breakup has dealt you a severe blow psychologically as well as emotionally, you need not take refuge in drinks and drugs. These will temporarily ease your pain but will ensure that your ex goes out of your life permanently. Instead take up a new job or a hobby and immerse yourself in it. Make new friends and get your self confidence back. Keep yourself occupied and try to forget the pain and hurt.

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