Want him to move on to next step? Unsure of how to get him ready to move forward? Feel like your current relationship is going nowhere? You are far from being alone, most women always feel like the relationship progresses too slow for their liking.
But there are some thing you can do to speed things up.
The first is to let him figure out that you won't be waiting around forever.
You do have a life and dreams that cannot be put on hold indefinitely while he makes up his mind.
You of course do not want to say this outright, but you definitely want to start dropping hints to that effect.
Men don't like to be pressured, so this has to be a realization that he comes to on his own.
The way to do this is to leave flyers around, either for apartments in a new city or for a vacation.
Never outright tell him about it, and when he asks about it, tell him you need a change of pace.
Or tell him that you feel like you are stuck in a rut.
Even if you don't say that it is because of him, it's likely he'll start thinking it.
Never say things in a mean or confrontational way, keep everything lighthearted and happy.
It takes a great risk, because for all you know, he may just tell you to leave, but if he does, then he probably was not planning on committing anytime soon anyway.
You also want to let him see that he isn't your only option.
Bring subtle attention to the guys that hit on you or flirt with you.
While you still show him that you love him and care about him, but showing him that he is far from alone in desiring you, will give him the idea that he really needs to tie you to him, and fast.
Guys needs security and comfort though, so never attack him or outright express that you are looking at other guys.
On the surface remain the same loving and devoted woman you have always been.
Soon he'll start realizing how great he has it, and how close he is to losing it.