Pushing Boundaries: Tips To Taking Your Game Up A Notch
Before I get into the juicy part let me tell you a story.
I have a friend who likes wakeboarding.
When he was new to this sport, he was contented wakeboarding on clear calm waters.
For the first few months, he was contented doing this until he realized that sticking to his comfort zone would get him nowhere.
Therefore, he decided to take on challenges.
Every time he goes wakeboarding he pushes the limits a few notches up.
He also made sure that he goes wakeboarding with people who have more experience than he does.
He kept doing this until he was able to conquer one of the toughest challenges in wakeboarding, which earned him a win at a local wakeboarding tournament.
The same thing can be said in dating and escalation.
Most men are so comfortable talking to women that they often end up being her friend and nothing more.
Other than being comfortable they are probably too scared to try and push the boundaries and see whether she will be receptive of him making sexual advances or not.
I see no reason why you should be afraid to push the limits.
After all, you can never achieve victory unless you willingly take on the challenge.
If you are still not convinces, here are some tips that might help you move past talking to her and onto her bed.
First of all, there is really no need for you to perform big moves or astounding moves.
In fact, you can even spark sexual tension the moment you approach her.
It is important that you impart some sexual undertones in your movement so that you will have something to assess.
One of the best ways to convey this is by holding her hand a little longer when you shake hands.
If you think she is open to your advances, based on your assessment then you have no reason why you should not push the boundaries some more.
Second, make her feel good about what she is doing.
Women have built-in ASDs and you have to break through these defences in order for her to go on a sexual adventure with you.
One of the finest ways to break these barriers is by making her feel good about what she is doing.
Remember, never force a girl to do something she does not like because this will only ruin the fun.
For more tips on pushing boundaries and improving your game, my webpage is open.
I have a friend who likes wakeboarding.
When he was new to this sport, he was contented wakeboarding on clear calm waters.
For the first few months, he was contented doing this until he realized that sticking to his comfort zone would get him nowhere.
Therefore, he decided to take on challenges.
Every time he goes wakeboarding he pushes the limits a few notches up.
He also made sure that he goes wakeboarding with people who have more experience than he does.
He kept doing this until he was able to conquer one of the toughest challenges in wakeboarding, which earned him a win at a local wakeboarding tournament.
The same thing can be said in dating and escalation.
Most men are so comfortable talking to women that they often end up being her friend and nothing more.
Other than being comfortable they are probably too scared to try and push the boundaries and see whether she will be receptive of him making sexual advances or not.
I see no reason why you should be afraid to push the limits.
After all, you can never achieve victory unless you willingly take on the challenge.
If you are still not convinces, here are some tips that might help you move past talking to her and onto her bed.
First of all, there is really no need for you to perform big moves or astounding moves.
In fact, you can even spark sexual tension the moment you approach her.
It is important that you impart some sexual undertones in your movement so that you will have something to assess.
One of the best ways to convey this is by holding her hand a little longer when you shake hands.
If you think she is open to your advances, based on your assessment then you have no reason why you should not push the boundaries some more.
Second, make her feel good about what she is doing.
Women have built-in ASDs and you have to break through these defences in order for her to go on a sexual adventure with you.
One of the finest ways to break these barriers is by making her feel good about what she is doing.
Remember, never force a girl to do something she does not like because this will only ruin the fun.
For more tips on pushing boundaries and improving your game, my webpage is open.
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