Of all the speeches that you may have to deliver in your lifetime, writing and delivering that eulogy speech for a very close friend or a departed family member may be the most difficult.
Not only are you asked to speak in front of a crowd, but you are also asked to do this at a time of emotional turmoil and confusion, of utmost grief and loss.
Here are some pointers to remember when giving that eulogy speech for a departed loved one.
Organize your thoughts and keep your eulogy short and simple.
Most eulogy speeches last for about three to five minutes.
The more you feel the pressure of having to speak for a long time, the more likely you are to go around in circles and repeat unnecessary points.
Write your speech down in an outline if possible so that you will not miss out on important aspects of your speech.
Many are advised to include heartwarming anecdotes about the life of the departed.
When choosing an anecdote to include in your eulogy, choose one that will best depict the most liked characteristics and most pronounced personality of the departed.
Also, choose one that almost everybody can relate to so that you can avoid having to explain all the other unnecessary details in the anecdote.
Be honest and let your feelings for the departed flow freely.
If you feel extremely emotional and break into tears right in the middle of your eulogy speech, don't worry.
Your audience will most likely appreciate your honesty and understand your sorrow at this moment of grief.